Lady's Goodbye

As I pulled my 1985 Oldsmobile Cutlass into thefrom the West penetrated the entire reception
back parking lot of Haydel and Haydel Chiropracticarea lighting it up like it was summer. Lady just
my terrier/poodle Lady jumped up on to thewouldn't leave Kerry and he seemed to want to
center arm rest in great excitement with her tailhold on to her as well. I started snapping pictures
wagging. She had always loved going to see Dr.and Lady posed like a professional model as usual.
Kerry Haydel. It was the Tuesday afternoonShe loved having her picture taken. I took
before Christmas 1986. I felt absolutely no joy orpictures of Lady sitting with Terry and Kerry on
happiness in my heart that afternoon. I felt like Ithe sofa. I snapped her on the floor with Kerry
was dying emotionally. Lady had been pronouncedsitting next to her and talking.
terminal with cancer in September. Her cancerArlene brought Julia into the reception area. She
was inoperable and she had been receivinglet her play on the floor. Julia wanted to know
chemotherapy since her diagnosis.what all the commotion was about. She seemed
After parking the car I put on her harness andto sense there was something interesting going
leash to walk her into the building. In the backon.
seat was a soft-sided dog carrier that containedLady was enjoying every minute of the attention.
my new puppy Shih Tzu, Julia. As I opened theTo see her frolicking in the office one would
car door Lady bounded out pulling on the leash tonever suspect that she lay on the wooden bench
get inside the office. I reached into the back toat the end of my bed all day and night at home,
retrieve the carrier with Julia. Lady could care lessbecause it was cool to her chemotherapy-heated
about this new puppy, as far as she wasbody. It was apparent that Lady knew this was
concerned it was an annoyance she didn't need. Iher last visit in the office and she wanted to
had just gotten Julia the day before so that Ipretend that her misery was an illusion.
would have companionship when Lady was gone.The "boys" had me laughing with their antics.
The first thing Lady did when I brought Julia homeThey were rolling on the floor and pretending to
was to bite her. She wanted Julia to know shebe dogs just to amuse Lady. It was delightful to
was still the boss of the house.be in their presence. It was giving me the
I was taking Lady for a last visit to Dr. Haydel'semotional vacation I needed; I was able to put
office, as I had made the decision to stop theaside my misery and grief during the time we
chemotherapy the past week. I knew that shewere in their office. This is what I had always
did not have but a few days left to life, and Iliked about them, their ability to make others
wanted to give her as much enjoyment aslaugh.
possible. This was the off hours for his office so IWe stayed for over an hour, during which time
knew there would be no patients that would beJulia peed and pottied on the light blue carpet to
shocked to see two dogs in a doctor's office.my horror. Kerry said, "Don't worry about it, its
As usual the back door was unlocked and once Ino big thing." I cleaned up the mess.
opened it I let go of the leash so Lady could runI asked Kerry "When the time comes will you
into the office and find Dr. Haydel. Little Julia wastake Lady to the doctors office for the final
whining inside the carrier wanting to get out. Thisinjection?"
was her first visit to Dr. Haydel's office. I walkedHe did not hesitate with his answer "Of course I
down the hallway to see where Lady had gonewill - don't worry about it."
and found her sitting on the lap of Dr. Haydel inI knew we had to leave before rush hour traffic
his office. "I see she found you." I commented.hit, as it would be a nightmare getting back to my
"My big girl sure did find me. Look how pretty youmobile home. My emotions were so over the
look today. " He was talking to her like she was aedge I didn't need the added burden of rush hour
little human being. You could just see the joy ontraffic in Los Angeles.
her face as he talked to her. His identical twinI put Julia back into the carrier and she started
brother Terry was also in the office as well as hiswhining once more. Lady was getting very
secretary Arlene. Terry and Kerry both tookfatigued although she didn't want to stop getting
turns holding Lady and talking to her.the love and attention from the "boys." Terry
"She just doesn't look sick." Terry said surprisingly.kissed and hugged Lady goodbye stating, "It's
Terry and Kerry had not seen my new puppygoing to be OK, I will always think of you."
and I wanted Julia to get accustomed to socializingKerry told her "I will see you again in a few days."
with people. I had brought my camera, which IArlene didn't know what to say it was beyond
hadn't used in over a year to take photographs. Iher.
wanted to capture this moment forever.I attached the leash back to Lady's harness. As
When I took Julia out of the carrier Arlene waswe went down the hallway Lady moved like a
thrilled at such a cute little puppy. "Oh, can I holdgreat burden had been lifted from her. I opened
her?" she asked.the car door and she jumped into her seat next
"Yes please, this will give Lady full attention fromto me. She stood up on the armrest in the middle
Kerry and Terry."of the two seats looking at the door of the
We moved into the reception area so that I couldoffice, as though she was saying goodbye to the
take pictures of the "boys" (my nickname foroffice. I said to her "OK Little Sunny Sunshine let's
Kerry and Terry) and Lady. The sun coming ingo.