Pacing Your Doctor Visit

"body">give you a diagnosis, politely ask the doctor to
We're in a healthcare world run by the rules andallow you to tell the whole story. Inform the
reimbursement schedules of insurance companies.doctor that the information in the rest of the
The average office visit is meant to last betweenstory will be beneficial to making a correct
eight and ten minutes. The scary thing is thatdiagnosis. Inform the doctor that by telling the
research on how doctor's think reveals that mostentire story you will feel more secure in their
doctors make their diagnosis in the first twentydiagnosis. Inform the doctor that they owe you
to thirty seconds of your visit. The question Ithe courtesy of hearing your story.
hope you're asking is, "Does the doctor have allPolitely Challenge the Diagnosis
the information they need to make a correctEvery profession is trained to make decisions
diagnosis?"based on cumulative information. For doctors, this
The American public has been conditioned to allowinformation is obtained through school, internship,
the medical provider to orchestrate the officeresidency and then their daily routine. There are
visit. It's important to remember that you employtimes when it's like the television show Batman,
the doctor. It doesn't matter who pays, you orthe information is put in the bat computer and
the insurance company, the doctor is working formoments later a card pops up with the conclusion.
you. If you start your office visit working fromIt's perfectly fine to ask your doctor upon
this premise there are steps you can take toreceiving a diagnosis..."what else might it be?" This
pace your office visit.question is not about being cynical, but it comes
Breathefrom a stance of self-protection. If you ask the
Unfortunately when we feel stressed for timedoctor this question it nudges the doctor to think
everything about us speeds up including ouroutside the box. It encourages or even facilitates
speech. Setting the pace of the visit can start bythe doctor into considering other possibilities. When
taking a couple of deep breaths, in the doctor'swe ask these questions, the doctor may come
presence, showing the doctor that you're tryingup with the same conclusion, but they will have at
to slow down and be more conscious during yourleast ruled out a broader range of differential
time together. When you take a deep breath youdiagnoses.
create space for the slow down to occur. YouSetting the pace for your doctor visit will lower
give yourself permission to take the time youyour stress level, allow you to develop a better
need to convey to the doctor your medicalrelationship with your provider, and potentially
concerns.avoid misdiagnosis. If you don't feel comfortable
Tell the Whole Storytaking any of these steps then having a patient
Ever try and tell a story in twenty seconds? Is itadvocate may be in your best interest. Find
even possible? If you feel rushed during your visitsomeone who will accompany you to your doctor
then put the brakes on and slow things down. Ifvisit or work with someone who will instill the
you feel the doctor has interrupted your story toconfidence in you to feel empowered as a patient.