Thinking About Having My Friend Photograph My Wedding

I tend to hear that from time to time and when Iwithout one. I've seen weddings without them and
do hear it, it always makes me laugh a little insideI've seen those receptions suffer.
and worry at the same time. I think to myselfYou can't get married without a wedding minister
that some brides may not want beautiful imagesor officiant, they are pretty important and hard
of their wedding or they may not care too muchto get married without one.
about it, because if they did they wouldn't trustWedding planners, personally I would go with one
their friend who, chances are, they are not aof these all the time. They help run the show so
professional photographer. More than likely theyyou don't have to. I can't tell you how many
bought a $600 camera and took a few photos oftimes I've seen the bride or groom running around
their trip to where ever and they have nevertrying to put out fires or do things they shouldn't
photographed a wedding.be doing because they don't have anyone else to
There is a lot that goes into being a photographerdo it for them. It's the couples celebration and
at a person's wedding, there is experience youthey should be relaxing and having fun.
need to keep you ahead of the game and makesPhotographers and Videographers, these are your
you ready for the awesome shot. There are skillsrecord keepers. These are the people the capture
that you acquire from continuous shooting andall the memories of this most important day. As I
classes that you attend to keep that skill up. Ahave touch on photographers, Videographers are
pro wouldn't have a camera you'd buy in Wal-Martjust as equally important that get over looked.
or Best Buy, they would have spent a couple ofCan you imagine going to a movie to see, Spider
thousand I'm sure.Man for example. What if you sit down in your
Even though I consider myself mechanicallyseat with your popcorn and you look up at the
inclined, when I have car issues, I take it straightscreen and you see images of spider-man. For an
to the dealer or a qualified mechanic. Same thingentire hour, you see cool image, after cool photo
applies if I wanted the roof on my houseof spider man and all the cool things he is doing.
repaired, I would contact a licensed carpenter so IAfter an hour or so, it's over, and you leave, but
can have to job done right the first time. With theall you saw were images and photos, not a movie.
wedding supposed to be once in a lifetime eventVideo brings you into the story in a way that
for you, magical and memorable, how will youphotos can't. You can look at a photo and you
look back on the memories, by looking at yourcan get a flash of a memory that is brought on
photos. To me that seems important, notby that image, but when you watch a movie it
something I would just trust anyone with.allows you to relive that memory and you began
Another good way of thinking about it, If yourto see things you might have missed or might
friend watches a lot of Discovery Health on TVhave forgotten.
and owns "some" surgical tools, would you let thatI could go on listing various wedding professionals
person operate on you?and their key roles they play, but I'm sure you will
Oh god I hope not, I'd go find me a doctor withhave gotten the point by now. Your professional
education and years of experience.wedding photographer is there to provide you
Having been to one too many weddings, I canwith beautiful images that will last you a lifetime
see that a wedding is like an orchestra. Everyand your friend should be there to celebrate your
professional is there to do their part and withoutday.
each one, your wedding could be out of sync.Allow the professionals to do what they do best
To have a reception you should have a Discso that you don't have to worry and enjoy that
Jockey, you can't really have a good partycelebration of love.